Progress

Things have been going quite well on the home front. My husband and I have been doing a lot of talking about what we want and what we are looking for in our new relationships. We have also started talking to a few different women just to get the ball rolling. I can’t speak on behalf of my husband, but I can say that I have found some amazing women that I have been conversing with and enjoying every minute.

I have made sure to be completely honest and up front about our situation. I always open with the facts: I am married. I am polyamorous. I am only seeking women. I have a daughter. I am looking for a relationship. I don’t want any confusion, secrets, or anything left in the dark. If someone is going to share a relationship with me they have to know what they are getting into.

It’s been a while since I have had these sort of conversations with people. Getting to know them. Getting a sense for their personality and feelings. It’s different, it’s nice. I have enjoyed getting to know a few women in the last couple of weeks and I am currently talking to 1 that I really feel we might have something going. I always tell people that I want to take things slow. I don’t want to rush. There is a lot I am still discovering about myself, my marriage, my husband, and what I am looking for. I want to get to know someone thoroughly and I want them to know me just as well before we meet and start really progressing as a couple.

I am excited about the future. About what relationships may develop. About the changes my husband and I are going to make with ourselves, our lives, and our relationships. I am excited about this journey and where it will take us.

Introduction

My husband and I have been talking about adding another woman to our family for some time now, but haven’t made any moves in that direction.  Just recently, I started exploring polyamory online and have come across some very interesting websites, forums, and blogs.  My husband and I recognize that we are a long way off from actually inviting someone into our lives.  We first want to learn more about the lifestyle and get a feel for what we are really looking for, then when we do meet someone, we want to really get to know the person before inviting them into our home and our marriage.  We are looking for someone we add to our family and our life, we don’t want to bring someone different home every other weekend.

I have been learning a lot about Polyamory from my online searches.  I have learned some of the terminology, some of which makes me laugh.  Unicorn Hunters for example 😛  I have also found this fantastic article which I have found to be very helpful.  It had a lot of information for new comers like us.  http://www.davidlnoble.com/so-somebody-called-you-a-unicorn-hunter/

Anyways, this is the start of our journey through Polyamory.  I hope we all enjoy the ride.